#IWSG April 2017 – Anxiety

I’m an anxious person. I get stress about getting stressed. 

Anxiety can hold you back from submitting your writing to magazines for fear of rejection. It can lead you to frustration at a lack of output, drive you to release self-published work without the proper feedback needed – because you know you need to get something out there.

I am trying to own my anxiety and make it work for me. I’ve tried medication for anxiety, and it works to some extent, but let me tell you – without some legwork, no amount of Zoloft is going to help that much.

Literal legwork, as in exercise – if you’re an Insecure Writer, chances are, writing keeps you busy. Maybe you wonder how you can have time for it. Well, the only answer is to make time. 

Do you have 7 minutes in the morning? A lunch break long enough to step outside? Stairs you can take instead of an elevator? I find that even a bit of exercise does wonders for anxiety.

And keep a darned diary already. I’m guilty of not keeping one regularly – I have to force myself. I have to accept that I am never going to want to keep a diary. But I wil keep one anyway – it’s essential.

The point of this rambling? Good habits have to be forced sometimes. You may need medicine for your anxiety, there’s no shame in that, but there are also habits you absolutely DO need. Anxiety and insecurity do not give you excuses – find helpful habits and stick to them. The anxiety won’t go away, but it will be a lot more manageable.

One question remains: did I write today’s post for my readers or for myself? The answer, of course, is a resounding yes.

Writing Exercises for April – Setting


Time to start the next series of writing exercises! Let’s focus on settings.

These writing exercises are intended to help beginners who are stuck, but I try to make them useful for writers of all levels.

Last month focused on solidifying your character as a fully developed person with motivations and ambitions. This month, we’re looking at the setting for your story.

Let’s kick this off with a simple question:

Where did your main character grow up?

Choose any POV character from any story you are working on, or you can make a new character for this. I want you to tell me as much as you possibly can about the character’s hometown (or the place they grew up if it’s not a town or city).

Even if the character’s hometown doesn’t appear in the story, I still want you to do this – you’ll have an easier time selling the reader on your main character as your character relates their current situation to their earlier experiences.

Your Character’s Hometown:

  • What kind of place is it? City, town, hamlet, ranch, etc.?
  • What’s the weather usually like? Cold winters, hot summers, lots of rain, dry and dusty, etc.?
  • Are your character’s neighbors generally poor, rich, or middle-class? Are most people able to afford basics like food, shelter, and education?
  • Are most people well-educated or not? Is there a college or university nearby?
  • Do most people have the same job (like in a mining town), or are there a variety of jobs available? Is there a lot of unemployment?
  • Are there a variety of ethnicities represented in this area, or are most people from a one or two ethnic backgrounds?
  • Are there a variety of religions represented, or is there generally one religion everyone is expected to share? Or do most people just not talk about it?
  • What do people do for fun? Think about nightlife, bars, cafes, parks, and other entertainment available in this environment.
  • Does your character like their hometown? What do they like and hate about it?
  • Do other folks around your character generally share these likes and dislikes? (For example, maybe everybody thinks the local pubs serve piss for beer, or maybe everyone is super proud of the local college).
  • If a middle-class tourist from a well-developed city visited this hometown, what do you think they would notice first? Friendly people, dirty streets, lots of coffee shops, expensive cars parked at shoddy houses, or some other detail that would stand out immediately to the majority of visitors.

This is by no means an exhaustive list, but it should help you get started.

Think of other details you can add that will tell me about your main character’s hometown and write about half a page.

I’ll share my own details about William Flynn, one of the main POV characters from Far Flung, on Thursday.

Keep on writing!


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